ClubFEM® is a social organization composed of individuals who want to develop sincere Female Dominant/male submissive relationships. The Dommes are in charge of the activities at all times. ClubFEM® Dommes are considerate and caring Women who want the D/s experience to be enjoyable for all participants. ClubFEM® members get to know each other very well and even get together for vanilla activities occasionally. The Dommes are friendly and helpful to other Dommes who wish to grow in their fetish knowledge and abilities.

And, finally, a word about D/s (Dominance/submission) versus BDSM. To some Women, being dominant means having a man at Her service for such things as house cleaning, massages, manicures/pedicures, etc. To other Women, dungeon scenes using BDSM equipment such as whips, paddles, canes and ropes are Their ways to enjoy Female domination. BDSM, on the other hand, describes Sado-masochistic behaviors which are not necessarily desired by all Women who dominate men. It is important for potential new members to realize these differences and understand that Dommes may choose one or a combination of both to achieve fulfillment. The primary focus of the Club is a variety of Dominant/submissive activities and behaviors between Women and submissive men.

ClubFEM’s Tulsa Chapter welcomes people from Tulsa, Oklahoma and the surrounding areas. We are looking forward to meeting you.

To learn more and find other ClubFEM chapters, visit the international website:  https://www.clubfem.com/international.htm